A woman in lingerie poses seductively on a bed during a boudoir photo shoot in Rotterdam.

10 Misconceptions about boudoir photography

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If you have ever thought about a boudoir shoot, a few doubts have probably gone through your mind. However, many of those doubts are based on fables. Let's discuss the biggest myths about boudoir photography discuss and debunk them one by one.

A woman in white lingerie poses seductively during a boudoir shoot in The Hague.

Boudoir should always verleidelijk its

Although boudoir photography often associated with a seductive look, this need not be the only direction. Instead, some people want a more subdued or artistic approach. Seductiveness can be expressed in different ways whether playful, elegant, or intimate. The beauty of boudoir is that you decide how you want to set the mood, whether you opt for something subtle or something more pronounced.

A woman in a green lace lingerie set lies on her stomach on a bed, supported by pillows. The scene, perfect for boudoir photos, includes plants and a side table in the background.

You need to know how to pose

One of the most common fears is that you have no idea how to pose. Don't worry, that's not your job. The photographer guides you through each pose and makes sure you look fabulous. All you have to do is show up and the rest will come naturally.

A woman in brown lingerie lies on a bed with a fur rug, smiling and leaning on one arm.
A woman in a white robe sits on a made-up bed, holding a glass and a book in a room with green walls, two armchairs and a large painting. Daylight streams in through a window with grey curtains.
    A woman with pink hair poses in front of a window.

Boudoir photo shoot is a one-off

Another common fable about boudoir photography is that people think it's something you only do once, say for a special occasion. In reality, you can do several boudoir shoots at different times in your life. It can be great to capture your personal growth and change, or just because you want to be celebrated in different ways. Boudoir is not just about that one occasion, but about regularly capturing your unique beauty and self-confidence, whenever you feel the need.

A woman in a white jumper and stockings, leaning against a window.

Boudoir is for one body type

The idea that boudoir photography is only for certain body types is not true. Whether you are curvy, slim or somewhere in between, boudoir is all about celebrating your unique body. It is a celebration of your form, exactly as it is.

A woman practising yoga on the beach and taking beautiful beach photos.
A woman with curly hair wears a black bralette, an open white shirt and jeans. She is standing outside, holding a pearl necklace and looking at the camera. The background appears to be a beach or coastline.

Lingerie is obligation

You might think that a boudoir shoot always has to be in lingerie, but that is definitely not the case. You can wear whatever you like, be it a jumper, a dress or even casual clothes. It's about what you are comfortable with, not a particular prescription.

You must be a model

The idea that you have to look like a model is a huge misconception. Boudoir is not about perfection; it is about capturing your own beauty. With the right lighting, poses and guidance, the photographer making sure you shine, just the way you are.

A person lies on a white bed, dressed in a light-coloured outfit, while pink and red confetti falls around him against a white brick wall.

Special occasion is needed

Boudoir shoots are sometimes booked for special occasions, but you don't need an excuse to do it. Many people do a shoot purely for themselves, to celebrate themselves and their self-confidence boost. All you need is the desire to do something beautiful for yourself.

A woman with long red hair stands topless amid dense green foliage, covering her chest with her hands.

Your photos do not remain private

Privacy is a big concern for many people, but a good boudoir photographer ensures your photos remain private unless you decide otherwise. You have full control over who gets to see your photos.

Asian woman in a floral outfit sits on a bed with her arm raised. Soft sunlight filters through the leaves and casts shadows on the white wooden wall behind her, giving the scene a boudoir atmosphere.
A woman in a white lace bodysuit kneels on a bed exuding boudoir elegance. She looks down and touches her chin with one hand.

Boudoir is for a certain age

Whether you are 20, 40 or 60, a boudoir shoot is all about celebrating your beauty. Every age has its own charm and a boudoir shoot is a wonderful way to capture that.

A person with closed eyes stands under a translucent white fabric and touches his neck with both hands.

Wait until you are thinner

Many people put off a boudoir shoot until they reach "the perfect weight". But why wait? Boudoir is all about celebrating who you are right now. Don't wait for that "perfect" moment - you are already beautiful the way you are. And do you want to lose weight anyway? Then it's a good stick.

Boudoir photography is a wonderful way to celebrate yourself, regardless of your body type, age or experience with photo shoots. It is all about self-confidence, self-love and capturing your unique beauty. Don't let the fables stop you. A boudoir shoot can be an incredibly powerful experience that you will cherish forever.

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